I see I missed interesting things

I actually strongly disagree with the statement of "headers make things look neat and organized", and use them to an exceedingly minimal degree with [i]great[/i] reluctance because they're tacky, unnecessary unless you're trying to keep track of the whole game. Given the fact that they aren't standardized anyway, they just look plain jumbled. 

They're not even necessary; mentions or bold texting a name point out very easily when a new character or player is being referenced in an interaction, and generally speaking, once one knows the group relevant to their posts there is no more need to try and keep track of where every single character is.

and they go against my personal sense of how i prefer to lay out my posts

So, my point is, until such a time as someone with the authority to force me to use headers the way they want me to actually [i]does so[/i], I will continue to offer the same information in my headers as I always have.