I honestly don't care if that stuff is involved or not, but I would appreciate it if the person I was rp'ing with gave a heads up and I probably wouldn't like to get too detailed because...well, that's just awkward

But I think fade-to-blacks are usually the best course of action in big group RPs. If it's a 1x1, well, I don't participate in 1x1s solely focused on smut, so that's no problem for me