[@21308] Not really, I was okay with it. Naw it is still Northern California. It is nice there and my favorite place in the world that I have seen so far. My parents split up when I was two. My dad is a little younger than my mom and wasn't ready to grow up. In his defence, he did right by my mom. They had only been dating three months when I came around and he did marry my mom and loves me very much. I didn't doubt that. He is just immature and flaky. He has been much more there since he remarried finally and had my sisters. He made me cry on my wedding day though by telling me that him not being there for me would be his biggest regret and asked for my forgiveness even though he always had it. I hope my words put his mind at ease. I didn't want him to have to continue to look at my sisters and think, I wonder if she did this at this age.