[@Akayaofthemoon] Immature and flaky, that actually sounds a good bit like my dad.  And I'm glad you were okay with your childhood and stuff.  I don't know, I guess I feel kind of guilty when I talk about my (relatively) privileged upbringing.  I feel bad that stuff went bad between your parents though, I mean I know that's common but it still kind of sucks.  But yeah, I know how it is having a dad who you need to forgive for a lot of stuff, he put my family through a fair amount of hell for a while.  I'm glad to hear things got better between you and him though, it was really sweet of him to say that to you.