How is it Holier then thou to state what's true? None of them went to check she was okay. 

I have dealt with berserk people, and frankly it's better to talk them down then shove hem full of chemicals. It makes things worse if you do that. And having dealt with Michael's crippling social anxiety Gabriel would be of that opinion too. Gabriel maybe immature, but that doesn't mean he doesn't see things. 

Beating on him, and apologizing for him is just going to make it worse, really.