[quote=@Nimda] Your lack of choice causes you to not stand out as an individual, equating you to the whole of society. Within our small coterie, you may be unique from us, but not from society as a whole, as being ununique surrounded by those who are unique does make you unique relative to being unique, but not relative to uniqueness in its entirety. [/quote] Pretty sure society would have an opinion too. People love to form opinions about everything.