[quote=Mizuho]
If she doesn't change, he won't have to because she'll be in another arranged marriage!How about this, you give me a list of approved guys so I know who Acacia can date
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I'm honestly exaggerating it. XD Hayden just doesn't want her to get physically hurt or abused in any way. He knows how guys can be, so he just wants to make sure she finds the right person and she doesn't get the wrong kind of heart break. The kind that makes her feel like she needs to hurt herself 'cause she wasn't worthy for love, type of thing. He knows that heartbreak is always inevitable, but some more dangerous and hurtful kinds can be avoided.