Yeah but someone shouldn't be so stressed to write that they drink or lose sleep. That's just awful and I hate myself for thinking I've pressured any of my partners to think poorly of themselves. It's more of a crap thing to say to someone you feel inadequate or something, not just from their point of view but yours as well. And I mean in general. And it's annoying to think someone has to freak about writing something for me, what's the point of doing anything if it's more work than fun...