[@NuttsnBolts] No I get what you're saying completely. Why I said I had only considered it. There are a lot of factors that come into play that I take into account. 

	Thing that gets me the most is when you see someone is completely active on the forum, posting away and then suddenly vanishes in the 1x1 or general rp but still very active rp wise elsewhere. It takes only of five seconds to send a quick message saying - no feeling it anymore, not meshing, dropping this, disinterested, etc. Heck I'll take a - screw you I'm out, lol Just cannot stand when people flake out and you know they're around. 

To quote Effie Trinket - It's just bad manners!