[quote=@Dynamo Frokane] Thanks for the condescending, snarky, yet informative post, I'm sure plenty people on the internet will think you are cooler than me now, Congratulations. You've made some valid points, and I am Inclined to agree with you on the three dudes being insecure about their dating preferences, this is a massive problem with men in general. Women maybe picky and shallow but they have the balls to run with what they want. Men are insecure little dweebs who love to spout a rant about bringing back the 'Alpha Male' and 'Masculinity' but they cant walk the walk, they are mostly followers and will follow the social convention to act disgusted at fat girls, even if they are in fact attracted to them, unacceptable. But there are some points about generalising which I also covered in that same post as the above one (aren't I great) and here I'ill even put it in the hider so you wont hurt your scrolling finger.... [hider=Enjoy] 3. [b][u]OH MY GODZ DYNAMU, DONT BE GENORILIZING, ITS NOT ALL ABOUT LOOKS ITS ABOUT TEH PERSONALITY, AND LOOKZ ARE TEH SUBJECTIVES!1!![/u][/b] [hider=Beauty On the Inside] [img]http://www.quickmeme.com/img/9c/9c6ad74ff8f9d5a546c51bdd27d60c7ad2b35f5e2739e9d197446f19591b5b71.jpg[/img] [/hider] This is one of the most twisted half truths I've ever heard.... Are looks subjective? yes Does Personality matter? yes But does that mean that giving advice based on this isolated fact in a world where there are obvious patterns and trends in the way we perceive beauty a good Idea? [b][color=ed1c24]HELL NO[/color][/b] Yes everyone likes different things, some women like men who stink. does that mean we tell men to stop showering JUST IN CASE, no. You have to generalise to be practical, and its ridiculous to fool ourselves thinking everything is this perfect swirling blossom of different opinions and tastes.....THERE ARE SOME HARD TRUTHS [i][b]Most [/b][/i] women are going to prefer a guy taller than them [b][i]Most[/i][/b] women are going to prefer a guy somewhere close to their age usually not younger though [b][i]Most [/i][/b] women like men who dont shit thier pants during the 3rd date and then try and clean it up with the tablecloth... do you get the point? We have to generlise for somethings to give good advice! And this[b] everyone is attractive to someone[/b] thing as well, [i]THANK YOU FOR THAT TECHNICAL POSSIBILITY[/i] Yes its [i]technically possible[/i], that there are women out there who find this man absolutely irresistable [img]http://media.gamerevolution.com/images/misc/Fat-Guy-At-Computer.jpg[/img] but I have a strange intuition that maybe this guy is going to rank slightly higher on general scale [img]http://images.kdramastars.com/data/images/full/36962/chace-crawford-jpg.jpg?w=600[/img] [b]LETS JUST BE MORE HONEST AND PRACTICAL WITH GENERALIZATIONS PEOPLE!!!![/b] **************************************************************************************** [/hider] [/quote] Woah! sorry! I didn't mean for it to sound condescending. >.< Hell, it wasn't in response to anything you or anyone else said. I was just posting an independent complaint, as I am prone to doing in threads about complaining. I mean, your post clears it up, I guess, (and I did read that whole advice post you linked to before. 'Twas a fun and useful experience.) I just wanted to gripe about how I was a little confused that the Dudes who Shall Not Be Named didn't feel comfortable enough to be honest with the other guys. But yeah, you're probably right, and there might be something I'm missing. Again, I'm really sorry if that came off as a slight towards you. I have nothing against you or anything you've said on this thread. You know what you're talking about, and I don't, really.