heres some free dating advice DONT TRY AND PICK UP WOMEN IN NIGHTCLUBS Not that I ever frequented nightclubs/bars (I more into live rock music), but these places are arguably the most brutal and unforgiving environments to try and meet women (unless of course you are a Chad or slayer). Firstly, they are usually a sausage fest, where men outnumber women by massive ratios, and once you take out women who are with their boyfriends, and women who just want to dance/or attention whore, you are left with a very small pool of available women. Why do you think there is so much alcohol related violence in nightclubs and bars?, too many horny men fighting over too few women.