[@Sen]I agree with most of your points besides the gender one. But I think what you consider gender is what I consider sexual identiety since I lump who you think you are and who you're attracted to into a single group (ie. A straight male or a bisexual transfemale).

Ain't buying the whole "pansexual" thing that requires the use of xe/xim and the myriad of names people make up to try and cover up for being bisexual. Just say you're bisexual for christ sakes. Ain't like the people who hate that stuff aren't going to hate you any less.