[quote=@Galvanize] Violence shouldn't be implemented. But punishment should. He is your son. Show him you love him by punishment. It sounds ironic, I know. But he won't know that you are sorry and that you love him like you say without you showing concequence for his actions. If you left him at a young enough age, then he still has that child-like mind that he hasn't expressed yet. He will know that his actions are wrong and that you are there to help. I know. I have a husband and three vhildren whom do stupid things. [/quote] ... I never really thought about it that way... But how exactly would I go about punishing a 20 somethings man with a ton of power, who also works for the strongest enemy I've ever faced?8_