[quote=@Spiritblitz] I think I get the wanting to be right thing with the problems that my father and I have. He is always trying to throw me down saying that he is alwars right, and when is wrong he results to physical intimidation. Despite calling me smart...which I don't feel like...though he soon realized this recently and is going to a councilor. He is a veteran after all. probabaly didn't accept that he had post traumaitc stress disorder. Though my dad's side has a tendency to not accept truths about ourselves...like my slowly thinking that i may have Asperge Syndrome... [/quote] Yeah, I understand; family issues can often lead to projection into other life matters. But don't accept anything medical serious before it's been confirmed by a professional (unless it's really, really obvious). [quote=@Intrepid] In what way? [/quote] How much is remembered.