[@Neko Sensei] Basically, you need to be realistic. If this was a school. You wouldn't go up to your principal and be like FUCK YOU. You'd get expelled. 
You chose a dictator Household, so you have to do things in secret, not blatantly. The whole thing about Grangrel is to be cunning, not obviously rebellious. That's more of a Ventrue thing. You can still be a rebel, just be a rebel with a cause. Do things more planned and privately.