[quote=Dingo]
Not sure of how else to word it, it's all a little jumbled in my head, too.I guess the idea is; We all think of people as 'him', 'her', 'he' or 'she', it's impossible not to. We point at people and say "Did you see what [b]he[/b] did?" the same way we say "Check out the [b]blonde[/b[ at the counter."
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I'm not sure it is possible for the majority of people; such observations are a natural part of brain functioning. You automatically assess the things around you and assign terms (e.g. big, tall, male, fat, etc.). Can you avoid the prejudice thoughts associated with such terms and assessments? Yes, I think you can. I think that could also be why some people might be uncomfortable around people of mixed/swapped/trans gender, as they get confused as to what terms to assign them. I could be completely wrong, so don't hesitate to blow me out of the water.