[@SgtEasy] You can read it without a map it's just reaaaally confusing sometimes.

[@Hank] That is exactly right! So yeah, there's a very short window of opportunity. And thanks for the welcome! 

I had a friend also like you who could not like someone until after knowing them. Which of course makes everything difficult. Really, I guess just cross your fingers and hope to find a lady who has the same ideals.