Bayen chuckeled lightly at the young teen. His mind wrapped around the answer to what he should say, after all it can't be easy to explain alternate realities to someone who is already based on a similar situation. That would have just been bazzar. So he decided on a simple answer "Everything I want is right here. Unlike you I only gave my middle name, a weaker sub part of your name. Though it is still a key part of controlling you. Fully." He explained slowly. 

Not in such a way as to put him down. More like a searching inquiry looking for a level of understanding. Then he made an amendment to what he had said previously before unlocking the front door and stepping in "Do not mistake me, the urge to be compelled is strong when even one part of your name. Two is nearly impossible for any untrained person. Three is the worst... If you do something very wrong you may even be told to kill yourself. Be careful when speaking." He said fixing Oz a cup of tea. The room itself was very warm due to his forge, even the walls had a warm feeling to them. Neither of them would require a jacket at the moment. He did have a few extras, perhapse he should make Oz a pair of clothes for the numbing cold.