Squee~~~ someone with the same interests as me!! I consider myself advanced as well. 3-5 is about right though starters tend to lean towards 8 or so paragraphs. I have a soft spot in my heart for all things dark and gritty (Willing to balance it out with fluff and sugar) and 2-3 times per week sounds perfect. If you're still looking for a partner, I'd be happy to pitch my (non romantic) m/m idea to you. If you decide that you're not really feeling my idea, I'd be interested in a Reaper/Human pairing or a death/human pairing.