I created two drow characters in my roleplays,.... Cassandra and Vivian Bloodmoon. Sisters actually. You can tell which one was the one who didn't exactly shun same sex interactions. Nor will I shun it in the role play. I figure if a character as a desire for it why not. 

 Cassandra was of course a assassin though with a lot of drow equipment. Vivian was designed to be simple. Scythe and a pocket full of spells. lol Scythes can be brutal on the table top. Cut a few bandits in half with that thing.