[quote=@Zarkun]
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The idea isn't to take all the fun out of it, just to keep it fair. Realistically, who REALLY wants to have their character loose?
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That's kind of the opposite of a fair fight tbh. Good RP combat is about realistically outmaneuvering your opponent, the winner will generally be the smarter and/or stronger character. It isn't about wanting to lose, in a good RP the winner tends to end up being kind of clear cut. The only time I've seen players egregiously go out of their way to not lose, they tend to be godmodding and in those cases they get called out. In a good RP you should never need to decide a fight by using an outside source that boils down to chance.