[@Pair of Hearts] Sorry, i was busy creating a CS and didnt see you posted. It's almsot 2am here and my eyes are killing me, but i promise to answer tomorrow morning. I can already thank you for your input though! [i]~ about 8 hrs later ~[/i] Alright, now that i had my coffee i feel like a human being again. If i knew the people i was rping it, things might be a bit easier in that regard. I would have no problem asking them directly what's up, but when it's strangers on the internet it's a completely different thing, at least for me, because I don't feel like i can tackle the matter upfront. I guess it's true that most people usually act in a defensive manner, maybe even trying to convince themselves more than you that they can manage to keep up with the rp...but most of the time it ends up like you explained. Anyways, thanks for leaving a comment, it is very much appreciated :)