Elann compounded her desire with his desires. That meant that they had to work together. If at any point he would stop, even if in the beginning, she too would have stopped. It was not her desire to overwhelm him to make him suffer. It was her desire to go to the point he felt comfortable with her, a state of oneness, and yet full of as much desire as he could handle. It seemed they perhaps reached and surpassed that state as he followed her by example. 

He pulled away from her and asked her to be calm. Even though her physical actions were calm still, in the bond they were buzzing. The passion she so longed to feel coming from his side of the bond then was stiffled as he pulled away. She supposed it was fair. Elann had asked him in his physical power over her to be calm and slow once and now he was asking that through their bond and actions she remain calm.

Her longing desire to feel his passion had been met, and she wasn't going to screw it up by demanding it back. She instead listened to him and welcomed him with open arms as he came back to her. She was just going to enjoy the physicality of all he wanted to show her. The most prevalent there was his intense love for her, not only through his actions, but through his bond. For his sake she kept her passions, desires, and emotions slow and calm, hoping he appreciated it and instead was a feeling of pleasure and oneness out of what he showed her.

Parting from her lips, she pressed her own gently together as he spoke and silently nodded, letting her actions speak louder than words. She naturally would feel his whisper enticing her in passions and into love making, but for now she just let him lead her where he wanted her. It wasn't to say she was a plank of wood emotionally or physically. Her lips and hands showed a great desire and love for him, just calmly, and her emotions held great passions, desires, and pleasures in their actions, but just much more softly.