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Every time someone puts me through what they been through, I imagine ten years from now, I probably adopted a kid of my own, and this person tried to aggress on my son/daughter and when I catch them they'd probably justify "this is what I went through! Where was anyone when [i]I[/i] needed help?"

Then my mind goes back to present day and I'm like, "Nope, if you know it's awful, you offer advice to others. Not emulate the scenario via demonstration." and peel off the toxic band-aid that is their negativity in my life.

YOU NEED A BETTER SOCIAL CIRCLE, MAN. You're free to start with me as a skipping stone. //grand "hug me" gesture