[quote=@KatherinWinter]
[@Framing A Moose] well that could be part of it but her programing would be changed to make her fit tge ptogram. She would be seeking a companion. 
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I'll meet you halfway: what if she's reprogrammed so she's seeking a companion, but since she knows she was reprogrammed, she could actively try not to have feelings for people, and therefore act like she doesn't want anybody, even though she's being forced to want a partner.