I think for now everything is just either light banter or feeling out how things might go down. I generally tend to nope away from sexual details just because I'm not fairly confident or comfortable with writing it.  Yet I have little to no issue describing someone having their liver eaten (go figure). Needless to say I won't go out of my way to make anyone uncomfortable and will follow the vibe given off of other posters as to how I will conduct my descriptions.