I don't mind playing as someone who's unconventionally attractive, but if I do I usually don't make a big fuss about it. They're either a deranged psychopath who gives zero shits about how they look, or the tone and the setting of the RP is not suitable for my character to have body image issues.

Most of the time though, I choose to play as people who are considered slightly above average. I never use photos of hot Hollywood hunks (or hunkettes). If I choose the photo of a thespian , you bet they're gonna be very obscure and not popular enough to get instant recognition.