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That's a fair point. 
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Oh, go ahead and be calm with her! One thing you seem to forget that is in common with all of us is that our pasts are bad and we are going through a lot now. You are being a horrible leader by doing everything yourself stubbornly. One thing you gotta know, you can't achieve everything alone. You will fail.