-laughs-
Exactly.
There are other ways to enjoy kids.
Besides I told boyfriend 2 things; A] We must be married and B] The two eldest need to be in college. 
5 kids is too much and the 4 already have to deal with their mom's twins with a different guy. 
She's a piece of work I don't want to get into, let's just say boyfriend got back together with her while she was pregnant with another guy's kid and that's how he got his 4th child.
Wonderful little girl and knows that boyfriend is not her biological father but she respects him like a dad and he loves her like a daughter, it's cute as hell.