I could care less about labels as the opinions of others are either against, for or neutral and in the end only opinions.

I love Star Trek and have been called Trekie, Treker, Weirdo, Geek, ect.

I love Table Top RPGs and that too is fixed with labels many of them insulting and still I don't care.

I am a fan of Black Powder rifles and Iron target shoots and there too I am fixed with labels so to me the whole Gamer Label being Toxic is a moot point

I'm a Geek, a Gamer, a Trekie, a Gun Nut, a Dyke, a Weirdo and other things but in the end I am still who I chose to be