-laughs-
Awesome back story!
I would have never guessed English wasn't your first language. 
I live in the United States and you write better than most people here.
-laughs-

Oh the kids.
Actually I'll clarify a few things. 
First things first, I'm female bahahahaha. 
Boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years but he is 11 years older than me.
He was married before and had 3 kids, 2 boys and a girl. 
He married her because she got pregnant so he started young, the eldest just turned 17 and the middle child is 15 and the youngest is turning 13.
They broke up but got back together while she was pregnant with some other guys kid so boyfriend helped raise that child and she calls him "dad", she just turned 9. 

They may not be mine biologically but I love them dearly and want to support them through their journey of growing up! 
But no kids (or even talk of kids) between the two of us, 4 is enough!!!!!
-laughs-

Well I just word-vomitted all over you, sorry!

Is your native tongue Romanian?
If that's not the name of your language I apologize and please inform me!