...yes. Its super surprising that in a group made narrative sometimes people post things ahead of you. And those posts disrupt your intended narrative. And you need to adapt slightly to handle their interaction.

Are you sure you've RP'd before man? Cause it seems like you're missing out on key features of this hobby. 

Edit: Not to put too fine a point on it, but if other people were disrupting things you wanted to do, its kind of a good idea to PM them and try and work that out. Atleast in regards to the Jarde thing