So ive been planning this and i am working it. Its just right now ive hit into a few pauses. I was given some suggestions. Two really. And wanting to move with my ex/bestfriend i met over xbox. He lives in ohio and since dads becoming a pain and not taking responciblity like hes suppose to when it comes to my siblings i want to move out. But suggestions were that i move into a house of my own. At least rent one for 6 months at least before moving. The other is to move up there and be done. My aunt was thinking about me renting a place of my own where i can get my barrings together. Not only that but do this in steps where my ex was wanting me to move up there out of financial since its financially difficult for someone such as myself with my paycheck to live on my own.