[@carla6677][@Overlord24] "Emma, things can change if you try and allow the change to happen. You say you dont want help but you obviously need and probably want it. We are here trying to do things the right way." He said "I love you. Ella hates me...so really....everything is my fault but youre not even letting me try to take the steps in fixing things. I want to fix this. My wife is cheating on me, i have a bad relationship with my father. My brother looks down on me and some of my kids and nieces and nephews are loseing respect in me."