[quote=ImANargleHunter] Nothing, I just don't think that's what Squee came here looking for. Sometimes it's nice to just have someone tell you, "Yeah, this shit sucks. You're right to be feeling what you're feeling. " [/quote] Neither of you said that. People have vastly different emotions. There probably isn't a right answer. But I can safely say that shooting down other people's attempts while contributing nothing of your own is truly pointless. Who fucking knows what she wants. Let's let each other try a few things.