[@Raddum]

I can hold a grudge too, but my tendency to forgive is complicated. Basically, if the person is genuinely sorry and their actions show this, then I'll usually be able to forgive almost anyone, but if a person doesn't show this regret and doesn't make an attempt to make things right then I won't have anything to do with them. Not that I'll hurt those people, or go out of my way to get revenge, but I won't associate with them.

Within the short amount of time I've been on this site, some people fall into the 'you haven't earned forgiveness' category.