Sorry so quiet, but for the past 72 - 96 hours dealing with a veritable wall of sh*t that I never saw coming, and has kind of mind-screwed me pretty well. I'll try to have a post up at some point this evening, though early or late I couldn't begin say. Though never fear, it had nothing to do with Dot and her precious, fickle, wayward ways. Of course I was right hon - I'm always right, in case you ever wondered - though I should warn you Fatesy/Unlit/whatever you'd like to go by: do not squeeze our Dot too close, or try to clutch her in your hand too tightly. She will only slip between your fingers. She may sing her song for you at the moment, but that beautiful bird will fly as she will... :hehe