I believe some people are simply poor human beings to others for any number of reasons, punctuated at their worst by making certain specific targets of groups on grounds such as this one of gender alone. I was specifically and definitively speaking to an unusual circumstance wherein someone who appeared and behaved as a normal functioning member of society otherwise turned out to have a deep and dedicated sexist leaning. Or, contrarily, a series of continued, measurable instances you were aware of relating to this issue that recurred. Given you are not comfortable or interested in sharing those, it is not my business to pressure you for them but to instead state the following on it; in my opinion, women are treated fairly in the United States by and large.

To move back from that topic, again the reality of illegal immigration is that while these people might be escaping those things, they need abide by the laws of the nations they pass through and seek shelter in. It cannot be endorsed or incentivized that this behavior is acceptable or fair to the people of the country affected.