Personally the ghosting thing makes me feel less secure. I've had to deal with stalkers and the like on forums, here included. Knowing they can "vanish" and still keep stalking puts me on edge. (It's one of the reasons I am glad my eldest no longer comes to the forum.) Side note: If it were all possible, it would be a nice feature that if you collab with someone you name could be added to the post and the upvotes for said post notified you as well.