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 What if you can make ghost mode view-able only to those individuals you're friends with (not that are friends with you, to be clear)? This would prevent stalkers as honestly, if someone is harassing you than you're not likely to have them as a friend and if you don't want them to know you're online then you can just unfriend them to eliminate that ability to see you online or not.
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As a GM I strongly oppose this idea. I like being able to see if someone is logging on daily so that I can take proper actions with them. If you haven't posted in my RP, or otherwise contacted me, and you log in daily, I know you dropped out of my RP. But if you haven't been on the forum for weeks, you could be going through an emergency.

Perhaps having an ignore list that prevents you from receiving PMs from users would be the best of both worlds. GMs could still monitor ghost users, and ghost users could protect themselves from unwanted stalkers.