Ah sorry to hear that then, its something a lot of people who are gender queer have trouble explaining to people so I think it helps to use it where applicable as often as I can to try and familiarize people with it? Anyway its just how my character is and something I feel pretty strongly about, Im just going to refer to Auri as they/them/their, other characters can of course use their own pronoun choice as I stated as Auri has no issue with that, but this is one of the very few things I do not want to change about them for the RP. 
Please let me know if this will be an issue