For that imaginary scenario I had planned to allow you only 2 routes. Either help him and get fired or don't help him, he is fired and later on he commits suicide. Since you stated:"If I'm struggling to finish it myself, I refuse" then we'll go with the latter conclusion. I know this is extreme but please bare with me. Are you called evil for doing that even if you didn't know the consequences? One way or another, you hypothetical actions indirectly caused that person's demise.

When I attacked the term I thought it was all that you meant by using it, and that was the point of your second argument after establishing what evil is in your views. But living [b]only for yourself[/b] can not be considered evil. You may choose to not interact with others. You neither help anyone nor cause anyone harm. And the lies you may say to preserve this way of living may not cause any harm. But that raises the question, is not helping someone in need considered to be evil and immoral? What responsibility do you have to help that person? His problems are his own and even if you lose nothing by helping him you have no duty to do so.

Now getting back to evil. Evil is subjective same as morality. It can be and has been defined by various cultures/religions and people but in the end, at its root it is subjective. It is left for the person to decide what truly can be called evil. So if you call killing in self defense not evil, someone else calls it so. They call all killing evil and would rather die than perform the action for whatever reason. They call the act itself immoral. And that is the point with hell. Everyone who has done something evil goes there but evil by whose standards? Does anyone have the power to set those boundaries between evil and good? You can set them for yourself and to others in your own head but are you truly right with them?

So who goes to hell, what standards and moral codes set by which person should be followed to go to hell?  Does some amoral psychopath or autistic person who has killed countless people and performed countless crimes for immoral reasons, as seen by you, go to hell? He himself sees nothing wrong with those actions because he has no concept of right or wrong. Does he go to hell? Who is to decide?