[hider=My Hardest thing] THe hardest thing I ever did was leave the man I had been completely in love with for 23 years and start over. I took only what I could fit in my minivan and left everything else, including my 18 year old daughter. She opted to stay and try to take care of her dad. I got in my van and drove to Alabama to a friend I had met online. After deciding that we were compatible in RL and not just as internet friends we got an apartment together. My daughter came down three weeks later and moved in with us. Friendship became love and my friend and I got married two years later. [/hider]