Well, correct me if I'm wrong, but the way I see it He has already decided how everyone lives and dies. If something good happens to you or anyone, it has already been decided from the start of everything. I see it as a big plan and if something is to happen that He has put within the plan, then it will happen. He is all powerful after all so time is irrelevant to Him so he knows how everything goes and how everything will end up. Now, if he was really kind he wouldn't do small acts of "good luck" to give us a smile, no, he would do something major for everyone good of heart to help them in their life. But the fact that "luck" also smiles on evil people definitely shows that he views all humans the same, no matter if they are good or evil. SO you can't really say that he is "kind" in your definition of kindness.

I believe that the plan is already set and whatever is to be done or is in store for you , will be done. As I mentioned in an earlier post, praying to God is just foolish as you are asking Him to change His great plan. But praying and everything else was taken into consideration when he made His plan so I guess it matters somehow if He even decided to calculate how much you pray to Him in making His great plan.
But the truth is, from what we see, here on Earth he views and treats all humans the same, not giving special quirks or winks to anyone.