Welcome to the Guild, Ann! 

I'm sorry to hear what you have endured on your other sites, but the Guild is much more welcoming and encounters like yours tend to be a rarity on here. I hope that you are able to make yourself comfortable on the website and ultimately find what you're looking for. In the meantime, if you have any questions regarding the website and/or its layout, then don't hesitate to ask! 

And once again, welcome to the Guild!