[hider=this is not about anyone on this site, I just brought these worries here when I moved over] When someone for whatever reason doesn't want to continue partnering with me, but won't say so or tell me why, won't explain where I went wrong... instead I'll just see them posting around or making new threads without any word at all from them. They just ghost me. This is so hurtful and demoralizing... Two days will pass and I will tell myself, they are still getting around to it! More and more time will pass with them active on the site, and I will begin to worry. Gradually over the days I will begin to panic. Was there something wrong with my post? Was there something wrong with my character? Did I say something wrong? Should I ask if something is the matter, or is it too soon? I would change anything they needed in order to post, they just have to tell me… But I never get a response. I feel like I have failed. Like I am a terrible writer, all my ideas and characters are kitsch, garbage, fit to gag on. I feel as if I am detestable, too intense and unlikeable. It is so hard for me to write. I have so much anxiety and doubt caught up just in my own writing, and to send it to someone else and receive a non-response … I just want to know what I am doing wrong, because this is every time now and there is never any warning. I just want to know what i can change. Or maybe I am not fit to RP, I should not be writing with others. Fine. Tell me that. But do not do this. Please do not ghost me and waste my time. It is torture, it takes me so long to give up the benefit of the doubt and it makes me feel so awful … :( [/hider]