[@naptime] [url=https://www.roleplayerguild.com/posts/4087168]They do it here too[/url]—I could list the ten or twenty who have done it to me personally—so thanks for the disclaimer, lest we made a totally different assumption.

If my opinion matters, I think blaming yourself is far more admirable than tending to blame them. Even if it wrecks your mental state, that's the attitude one needs to get better at writing, which, [i]in theory[/i], would make others more excited to stick by you through your partnerships. (Some people of course are just irreconcilable. Cunts.)