Congrats on the wedding, I've been married for 6 years to an amazing woman, trust me every day is a million tiny battles but you don't know the right one until it seems like every thing is on the line. I was in the military two deployments and tons of training missions spent away from my wife and two little girls and never once has this woman ever complained about any of it(everything else she has no problem complaining about though......j/k.....sort of). Hell my second daughter was born and three days later I jumped on a plane and headed for my second deployment and never once did I hear her curse me for having to be gone. I guess my point of all this is you're a woman and women in my experience are a hell of a lot better handling situations where it seems like nothing is going to go right.