It's just a reminder, not a criticism. It could also be that Nerevarine forgot and thinks he or she is waiting on a post when it's really his or her turn. I had one person freak on me harsh for not posting for two weeks. I thought it was his turn and it was mine. Honestly I was waiting patiently for him and had no idea. All I needed was a reminder, not a lecture and boy was he vicious. Ah, such is the internet.