[quote=mdk]
some guildmates were getting pretty extremely rapey with my female toon
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I think it's slightly depressing when you reach the stage that these sort of comments are not surprising or unusual in the slightest. 

[quote=mdk]
there was a big server-consolidation that rolled us in with a bunch of asshats and it just got lame all at once. 
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That's actually around the time I quit (the first time). I was so happy prior to that, having been like the second highest rank in the biggest guild on the server [i][b]for the first time in my life (I usually end up in a guild with like three random dudes for no reason)[/b][/i]. Not only did the guild completely separate and disband, but I found my laptop struggled with the increased amount of people in high population zones :(